Hey girls! Yes it’s Christmas Eve, and yes I am writing a post here on WIP. But first things first
HAPPY HOLIDAYS LADIES!
I hope you are celebrating and enjoying your holiday time with family and friends….and I hope it isn’t too stressful!
Okay… so I gotta get something off my chest.
There are some details on the Brand New Me Course that, if you are on the Waitlist, you will want to know about.
THE SCHOLARSHIP CONTEST IS NOW CLOSED- ANNOUNCEMENT SUNDAY.
One lucky girl is going to win a full scholarship for the Brand New Me six week online course. The scholarship contest is now officially closed (it locked its doors yesterday.) The officially announcement of who the lucky special WIP Girl is that won the full ride will be announced on Sunday! Yay! A little christmas bonus to our special winner! The announcement will happen in the Facebook community group so be sure you are in there. We will also be contacting the winner directly via email, so no worries if you don’t have Facebook. Just be sure to keep an eye out for our love letter.
EARLY BIRD ENROLLMENT OPENS MONDAY
On Monday, the doors will open to enroll in the Brand New Me online course. Early bird enrollment is special and it lasts a week. What is early bird enrollment? Well, it’s a special opportunity to enroll early and get free amazing awesome bonuses. Things like added 30 day improvement course packages, one on one coaching packages with me and more fun stuff. All the details will come to your email on Monday, so if you haven’t jumped on the waitlist, now’s the time.
BRAND NEW ME IS A LIMITED TIME ONLY COURSE.
This means that when you enroll in the course, you get lifetime access to the content of the program. Yes. LIFETIME ACCESS. However, if you don’t enroll with our January group, you won’t get another chance to purchase the program for a few more months. The close closes it’s doors for a reason. Brand New Me is a six week online program that runs live. Meaning, it’s kinda of like online college, where a bunch of students take the course together at the same time with a teacher (aka me.) So when you enroll in the course, you get live coaching access with me as I walk you through each assignment step by step. We all embark on the journey together in a coaching group!
ONE LAST THING: I LOVE YOU AND BELIEVE IN YOU.
NO matter where you are in your life right now – know this: You have the power to change your future. You can create any amazing bright path ahead… you just need to take that first step.
Okay. So I am going to leak a few tips and tricks from my amazing new mini course New Me 2017. Because I think no matter what you want for the new year, you sure as hell want to kick ass at getting it. And I want to help you!
So let’s get to it shall we?!
No fluffy intro, no silly little blogging banter. Let’s get straight to me helping you!
(And if you want to kick ass next year check out the Mini-course New Me 2017. )
How to Kick Ass in Your New Years Resolutions
Don’t pick too many goals. But pick more than one.
Part of the New Me 2017 that I love the most is helping girls dream up bigger and better goals than they already imagined. So when you first started thinking about your resolutions – let me guess – they were simple right? Things like – “I want to lose weight,” or “I want to finally go on that vacation,” or maybe “I want to not be broke.” Well.. try thinking a little bit bigger than that. Think about multiple areas of your life and how you can improve them: your health, your finances, your happiness, your self image, your sense of confidence, etc. Think of like.. a million different amazing things you could probably accomplish when you dream a little bit bigger than just ONE goal. But okay, don’t pick a million. Settle for maybe three or four.
Make sure your goals are emotional.
The only reason we fail at our goals is because there is no emotional drive to achieve them. (Or we lose that emotional drive along the way.) I was looking back on my goals last year and want to know something? I achieved ALL of them. YUP. No joke. EVERY SINGLE ONE. And it wasn’t because I was iron man or some anomaly. I really just got emotionally clear about what I wanted. This is a whole intensive part of the New Me 2017 mini course, but for now, know this:
Ask yourself WHY you want something. Then ask yourself why you deserve that goal. And then follow it up with another final question: What will happen if I DON’T make this change today.
Create goals that are smart and timely.
SMART goals: Specific, ,measurable, achievable, realistic and timely. There. Boom. There’s a whole guide on this that you can grab for free here. But I will leave it at that. Just think about your goal and ask yourself how you can make it all of those things.
Come up with a solid game plan.
Once you get specific about your goals, it’s time to come up with a game plan. What can you do specifically between now and the new year to prep yourself? Come up with a plan and break it down in weekly or monthly increments. Start seeing things on a smaller spectrum rather than the big big picture. Break what you want down into small steps so you can be more successful in the end. Trust me. It works.
Invest in your dream – whatever it is.
This is the part where I tell you that you should check out New Me 2017. Because it’s the best way to invest in your future. Plus it’s only 13 bucks so like.. why the heck not right? And enrollment will close on the 2nd of January 2017. But whatever you want to do – be sure that you put your money where your mouth is – even if your goal is to actually save money. Go out and grab a book on personal finance, or hire an accountant. If you are trying to lose weight, go out and invest in a trainer. The best thing you can do is invest in yourself. It sounds crazy, but it’s truly the first step in convincing yourself, “I am worth this goal, I deserve this goal, and I am going to get this goal.”
My little adorable cute puppy Zoey has always been a people pleaser. She gets happy when I’m happy. She gets sad when I’m sad. She is constantly feeding off my energy vibes and just always there for me. And oh em gee is she the cutest. Yeah.. dogs are usually people pleasers.
My little companion is so adorable. But her people pleasing nature got me thinking about something today…. how many of us live life like that? Trying to make other people happy all the time?
People shouldn’t live their lives for the sole purpose of making other people happy. They should live their lives being happy for themselves! And no it isn’t selfish. It’s something you DESERVE.
I used to be the girl who was constantly living my life for other people. I was always looking for love, trying to be accepted, and receive approval from others.
It nearly killed me.
When I look back on that life, it kind of makes me sad. I spent so much time trying to do things that made other people happy that I spent so little time actually living for myself. It was a crazy messed up people pleaser mentality that really prevented me from being happy.
My days as a people pleaser are long gone. And a lot of that has to do with the fact that I grew some serious self confidence. Having a strong sense of self-worth and being totally inline with who you are is a really powerful personality trait. It was for me. Because when I started to grow my sense of self love, being true to myself came naturally. It was just easier to do.
But before that? Man oh man it was hard. Okay.. Cute puppy happiness.
AHHHHHH! Okay.. Back to the topic. People Pleasers and Happiness.
Here are some things you need to know:
People Pleasers have a hard time being themselves.
Imagine a world where you lived for others. Constantly making decisions for your life based on what you thought would make other people happy, or proud of you. Is that your world now? I hope it isn’t. Because it is a horrible way to live. How can you possibly make choices for your life when you worry so much about what other people want or need from you.
People Pleasers often attract really bad people.
Because when you live your life trying to constantly please other people – the only type of people you attract are TAKERS. People who want to get as much as they can from you giving as little as possible back in return. Ever heard the expression “your vibe attracts your tribe?” It’s
People Pleasers have a distorted view of happiness.
Can’t be happy unless other people are happy? Struggling to feel proud of yourself if no one is there patting you on the back? This isn’t life. this isn’t happiness. This is struggle.
I want you to check out this post on How to Stop Caring What Other People Think (there’s a free worksheet in there for you)
Hey hey gorgeous girl. Need a little confidence boost lately? Good thing you’re here.. because I want to tell you all about the FREE 5 Day Self Love Jumpstart. I made it for all you WIPGIRLS out there looking to feel a little happier. It’s a free awesome Five Day Program to help you set new goals, revamp your life, and make some big awesome changes (well… 5 days worth)
HERE’S HOW IT WORKS:
In five day’s you’ll start
building self confidence
setting new goals
feeling a little happier
and even a bit more determined too.
plus it’s FREE yo.
So why not give it a try!
HOW TO GET THE FIVE DAY JUMP START
If you’re already a WIP GIRL, then you should have received an email with all the deets.
(let me know if you didn’t by contacting me here in the group)
IF YOU AREN’T A WIP GIRL YET.
IT’S FREE. YUP.
Once you create an account I’ll send you all the details.
SO GO AHEAD! GET STARTED!
I get asked this question a lot: “What should I enroll in? The Perfection Program, or the Broken to Beautiful Course? Which one is right for me?” In the course section of What is Perfection, there are two big 30 day programs to choose from. So if you’re that girl wanting to enroll in a self improvement program, but you aren’t sure which one is right for you – I’m gonna break it down for ya.
The Perfection Program and The Broken to Beautiful Course
-Both are 30 Day programs.
-Both have amazing success stories.
-Both are life transforming.
So which one do you pick?
About the Two Self Improvement Programs
The Perfection Program is a 30 day program for the girl who feels unhappy, insecure, and unbeautiful. In 30 days you set new goals for your life, learn how to let go of limiting beliefs and start rebuilding your confidence. You learn how to redefine “Perfection” so you can start actually fulfilling your dreams of living a perfectly happy life. You get specific and identify exactly what insecurities/fear factors are the cause of you feeling unfulfilled in your life. You re-identify the emotions you are longing for vs. the emotions that you have and create a custom roadmap for feeling happy confident and successful in your life.
The Broken to Beautiful Course is a 30 day program for the girl who wants to stop living in unhealthy unhappy relationship. In 30 days you set new goals for your love life, learn how to let go of the unhealthy limiting relationship beliefs that you’ve established from your past and start rebuilding your confidence. You learn how to let go of the fear and doubt your previous relationship has formed in your life. Create a custom roadmap for happiness and a new future as a single woman, or as a woman who no longer tolerates unhappiness in her love life. Let go of the pain of a past relationship and start healing your heart so you can find true love.
How The Programs Are The Same:
Whether you enroll in the Perfection Program or the Broken to Beautiful Program,
here’s what will happen in 30 days:
The Differences Between Broken to Beautiful and the Perfection Program:
So, these programs, while both all encompassing and focusing on self improvement, are tailored to two different groups.
The Perfection Program is really for the girl who just feels unhappy overall in her life. Who feels like she deserves more confidence, and wants to start making positive changes for her life. While she may have been in unhealthy relationships in the past, those relationships are not the driving force of her need to change.
The Broken to Beautiful program is for the girl who is really in need of repair from damaging past relationships. She is so heartbroken from being in unhealthy relationships that she has had enough and feels ready to change.
In a nut shell, this is the difference between these two programs.
So that about does it ladies:
the simple quick breakdown of the two awesome programs that are here to help you transform your life!
Now Go check them out and get started on your journey today!
Have questions still? Shoot me a note or post a comment below!